You cannot tread on eggshells all your life my dear. If that was the case we’d all be scared to hatch from the egg and see the beauty of the world. So if I can give you any advice, from one monophobic to another: live whilst you still have the blessing of life, breathe whilst you still have the fresh air of the world, dream whilst you still have to power to imagine, but most of all love with a love that infuses the soul with such passion, that those who lose you from this moment on will have to be entertained with the thought of you for the rest of their lives. I can’t promise you that you won’t have your heart broken or feel pain. What I can promise you, my Angel, is that you will rise after falling. You may have lost people you loved before, but as the story goes on you can’t have a rainbow without a little rain… and you can’t experience love without a little pain.